Alright so my first post was about being paid for sex from some guy I met on craigslist, but he wasn't the first guy I'd met, just the first that had paid. Oh, and I did end up seeing him again today. I "only" lasted 7 hours and so he didn't pay me the full amount ($700 instead of 1k – a little miffed since last time it was about the same, and originally he said it would only be 5 hours! But hey, still generous). My clit was way too sensitive and I couldn't bear the direct licks he was giving me, so we had to cut the session short. It was more of the same – making out intensely, being eaten out, fucking, cocaine (for him, not me). We did do a few new things: he pulled my hair hard which I surprisingly enjoyed, he got me to sit on his face which would have been nice but at that point I was too sore, and he tried to fingerbang me to orgasm since I told him I have never come from penetration. All in all a good day, but I'm pretty sure I have a cooch contusion and will probably have bruises on my butt again from all his biting. He's asked me to think of something else new that I'd like to try next time. I'm at a bit of a loss, since he's about as kinky as I've ever gotten. I guess I have some time to think about it while I recover!
Anyway, I guess I can share a story of when I first went "wild". I had been browsing craigslist and locanto for a while and had had one ongoing conversation with a man who wanted an Asian girl to chat with, but also to meet. He asked me to attend one of his gigs and meet him afterwards, but it ended late on a school night and I like my sleep, so I declined.
In the mean time I finally found an ad that caught my eye on locanto. I was bored and lonely, but not just looking for a normal hook up. I wanted some affection damn it, and maybe an intellectual connection. The ad was kind of a joke but it resonated with me; the guy was looking for someone who knew the difference between you're/your, and other grammatical errors that run rampant across online personals ads. Now, I'm not looking for a relationship with any of these guys, but knowing they can come across educated and literate is a good start. So I replied to his ad, and he admitted that it was a bit of a joke ad, but he was serious about finding someone to spend some time with. We exchanged a few more messages, and he was ok to host.. so I caught a cab to his house. Yes, I already mentioned I'm not that smart.
I was incredibly nervous. He met me at the door and let me into his house. It was out in the suburbs but not too bad – old, but well taken care of, and clearly the house of a sophisticated older man who lived alone. Neat, but comfortable, and a large collection of books and cds. There was some soft music playing. He offered me a glass of wine but I declined (I don't drink) but he had some for himself to calm his own nerves. We both agreed that this was a very strange thing for either of us to do, but I was clearly the more rattled one. I could barely make eye contact with him, and sat awkwardly away. He was as he described in his ad.. 46, white, very lean (he actually turned out to be a little too lean for my tastes), and very respectful. I didn't find him super attractive, but that's not to say that he was unattractive. He used a nice calming voice because he could tell I was freaked out. We had small talk and I built up the courage to move closer, and he started to caress me. I leaned vivthomas porn my head into his chest and just tried to focus on breathing. It was starting to get late and I decided to just go for it. He was standing and I moved in for a hug. It was nice but I was cold and he wasn't any warmer, but it still felt good to be held. We kissed a little.. and then a little more. At this point, my body seemed to know what to do so I just closed my eyes and let the very nice kissing take over. He was very affectionate and it was just what I needed. His clothes came off, and I exclaimed at how damn skinny he is; very lean but also quite tone, as he does a lot of bike riding. I was still wearing most of my clothes when I agreed to move things to the bedroom.
His bedroom again was neat and clean, with a big pile of books on his bedside table. Turns out he's some kind of librarianish thing. I was comfortable now, and in the mood, so we both got naked and onto the bed. I liked his cock right away. It was a good length – maybe I'm bad at estimating but I thought at least 6.5" to 7" (he's since told me 5.5" to which I exclaimed NO WAY it's that small.. we will have to remeasure), nice and straight, cut. I happily started to go down on him. Immediately I was rewarded by his moans of pleasure and twitching of his hips. He loved it, and let me know readily – which I loved in turn. There's nothing like going down on a guy and him letting you know how much he's enjoying it. He made me stop though, because he was close to cumming, but he told me I was very skilled. I enjoyed the compliment but I'm still not very sure how I rate, but as long as he think I'm good, everything's okay. He wanted to return the favour but I was hesitant as it was just past my period (TMI) and I was still having a bit of unpleasant discharge. He didn't mind and went down on me for a bit but I stopped him because I didn't think I could come. Normally I come easily from oral but it could have been a combination of nerves and the fact that he wasn't really doing it in a style I liked. Kinda my fault for not speaking up but I find it hard to give directions. It didn't bother me not to come, so I won't hold him at fault. So he slid on a condom and got on top of me. Mmm the feeling of him sliding into me was amazing. He fucked really well and with a good rhythm and stamina, but the only problem was that his bony hip was banging into my thigh (was definitely sore the next day). We fucked missionary, doggy, and spooning until he came. It was all very nice and I was satisfied. Afterwards, we cuddled and chatted some more now that I had stopped being so nervous. He was very easy to talk to, and very affectionate – lots of kisses and caresses even though he'd already cum. About ten minutes later, kissing became grinding and he was hard again. Once again I went down on him. It was sloppy and my jaw/mouth were numb since it took him longer to cum, but finally he did, and I did my best to swallow it all down. After he was done groaning he started chuckling a little, so I asked him what was so funny! He said it was the best oral he had ever had. I was very flattered! I stayed a little longer and we just pillow talked while cuddling, but finally decided to go home. It was late and I had spent three hours there, and I liked it. He texted me and we decided to do it again later that week. I've since seen him two more times and it's been nice. He's fun to hang out with and just chat, we have good sex and then I leave. It's a nice little ongoing FWB type thing. I was still feeling the need for more affection that weekend, and didn't want to cling onto him, so I posted an ad on CL under strictly platonic for cuddles.
I received a few well written emails and a few not so well written. I took down my ad and decided to respond to the ones that weren't just one liners. Two guys in particular seemed well spoken. Unfortunately I already settled on one, so I turned down the second, but he's since emailed me a couple of times asking me to reconsider. I've since decided I don't really have time for another guy in my life, but who knows. Plus he actually seemed to stick to the platonic thing, unlike the other guy I decided to write to.
He (32, brown hair, caucasian) seemed very normal and could carry on a conversation, but he immediately asked if it could be more than just cuddles/kisses. I said I would see how it goes, and he replied gentlmanly that he would be pushy. Ok. He unfortunately lived in the sticks, and didn't drive, but he said he would come into the city so we could catch the train together back to his place.
I met him in the city where he said we'd get brunch. His idea of brunch was picking up some takeaway takoyaki and crumbed scallops. It was 11 in the morning and I didn't feel like eating sushi just yet. I had wanted a hot cross bun but we couldn't find a bakery near the train station. Yes, he just wanted to grab something quickly so we could get on the train and start the hour trip back to his place. So I grabbed a donut (I paid for mine) and off we went. He then filled me in on the rest of the plans: pick up some things to make lunch from the supermarket and head back to his, maybe catch a taxi. A taxi.. wtf does this guy live, I thought, that he doesn't have a car yet has to catch a taxi from the shops. He said he wanted to watch some things on tv, then take a nap together (he didn't like to "be intimate" with a girl without her sleeping over, and I was not comfortable with sleeping over, so a nap would have to do), before I left. We made small talk on the train ride and it was alright. He seemed normal enough and had some very pretty eyes (I'm a sucker for blue/green/hazel eyes). I found out why he was such a broke mofo.. he was moving in a couple of weeks. Bleh. No wonder I like older guys.. They have their shit together and have nice places we can have sex at, and if they do live far, they'll drive me or pay for the cab. Anyway, he said he was going to make me some rolls for lunch, which I thought was nice, despite the weird ingredients: smoked salmon (yum!), sour cream (wat. should be cream cheese), coriander (wat), lettuce. Okay, I was skeptical but free lunch, what the hell. He also wanted spring onions but didn't want to pay $2 a bunch for them. Fair enough. But then he decided no taxi, and we would just walk to his place. Fifteen minutes he said! Thirty minutes later, we had walked through some creepy park thing that was deserted because we were out in bloody woop woop and next to a freeway. I admit I was a little scared, but I had nowhere to go. Finally got to his house and his two dogs start barking their faces off at me. I like dogs but his house stank of dogs. They also weren't used to boundaries, and would lick him and me while we were trying to cuddle, watching some show he put on. It was OK but I was not impressed. He put something else on after that and I decided we should move things along. We lay down on his dog fur covered couch and he started kissing me. That was nice, he had very soft lips, and found my weakness (being kissed on the neck) quickly. My body gave in after that and he quickly started groping and put his hands in my pants. I managed to paw back at him but didn't really feel anything.. We moved things to the bedroom, after he finally managed to lock his dogs out. Note: he had a mattress set up right next to his bed for the dogs, but I'm pretty sure the dogs just slept next to him (found this out later..). Got undressed and I let him go down on me. He made me come once (I'm easy) but that's about it. He asked, "can you suck me". Ok sure. I check out his dick.. it's small, and flaccid. I'm guessing even when he got it hard it must have been less than 4.5. Damn it I should have asked for a dick pic. He couldn't get it hard, even when I was going down on him (made me doubt my previously praised skills). He did like it when I swirled my tongue around his dick even though he was completely in my mouth; it was easy when the dick is so soft and barely filling my mouth. He also took the liberty of holding my head and trying to fuck my face. Not really how I like to give head but whatever. He rolled me over and started doing that really lame porn thing where he slapped his dick on my pussy. Really unattractive and didn't help him get particularly hard. I swear he was about to just put it in me when I stopped him with a hand on his chest and a stern "Uhh do you have a condom?". Seriously dude? I'm on the pill (he didn't know that) and I just gave him a "bareback" blow job but still.. don't be sticking your dick in some chick. I don't even recall what the sex was like, but it was unremarkable and I couldn't really feel him. He just didn't really get hard but somehow he came. I rolled over and away and questioned my life choices before falling asleep. Not sure how long we napped, but it was a good break from it all. He then made a halfarsed attempt at keeping his dogs out of the room so next this I know, one is right next to me as he attempts to have sex with me again. He tried to put a condom on his semi-hard dick and tried to stuff it in me to no avail, stating "I just thought I could get hard inside you".. uh huh. I don't have much experience but I don't think that's how it's supposed to work. He apologised and said it wasn't usually like this for his second time with a woman. Nerves he said. Fair enough. We ceased the effort and hopped into the shower.. where he ran out of soap! Luckily I got cleaned off first. After that, I wasn't that hungry but decided to try whatever sandwich thing he wanted to make. It was alright (hard to mess up smoked salmon), but I raided his lolly jar for some extra sugar for the hike back to the train station. We were almost late to the train because he took his dogs along. I was extremely happy to get on the train and avoided any mention of seeing him again. I've since blocked his number.
The day after was when I met the guy I mentioned in my first post. Between him and my FWB I think I've found a couple of decent guys to fulfill my needs, despite the riskiness of how I went about it. I think I'm lucky to have found them, and I hope they feel lucky to have found me.
If you've made it to here, congrats, and I hope you've enjoyed my stories.
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